At the beginning of quarantine rules, there were jokes made about it being an introverts time to shine. As the restrictions carried on, it all became less funny. Even the introverts recognized their need for connection with people. Social media is a two edges sword. Bringing people together, but bringing people into our lives that… Continue reading Vulnerability Is Essential for Connection, It Does Come With A Cost
Understanding Is A Gift
As Christmas approaches, some are making difficult choices to cancel planned gatherings, or not to join with groups. It would be easy to be angry or hurt by those choices. The best gift we can give each other is understanding. Everyone has to make a decision based on what they know to be right for… Continue reading Understanding Is A Gift
Temperature Is Dropping
Here in the Pacific northwest, the temperature is creeping down as our season slips from autumn to winter. Some are hoping for a white Christmas, others have enjoyed the extended warmth.Most are ready for the eventuality of the cold. Pantries are stocked, flash light batteries are fresh, and books are stacked, waiting to be read.… Continue reading Temperature Is Dropping
Seeing Holiday Stress From A Child’s Perspective
Much is written and thought about Christmas being for children. What happens when we look at the holiday season from a child’s perspective? Adults stress about how much money is being spent or how much isn’t available. They are sad about getting together with family or worry about having to get together. The activity level… Continue reading Seeing Holiday Stress From A Child’s Perspective
Record The Good, Release The Bad
As the year winds down, take time to reminisce and record the good that has happened, and release the bad. Here are 5 ways to do that. 1) Tape a piece of paper in a prominent place, where every member of the household can add things. Write them down as you think of them. Fold… Continue reading Record The Good, Release The Bad
Quitting Isn’t As Easy As It Sounds
At the beginning of October 2021 I quit the job I had been at for 16 years. I loved my job, but my work situation had become so stressful that I dreaded going to work. So I left. I took me months, after I decided I should, to make the move. Quitting isn’t as easy… Continue reading Quitting Isn’t As Easy As It Sounds
Presence Is A Gift
Distractions are not new, they are simply closer at hand. Literally in our hand. The information age is a wonderfully thing. Unfortunately, it is also a terrible thing. Time meant to be spent with people, turns quickly into time looking up the best recipe, as someone asks a simple question and a room full of… Continue reading Presence Is A Gift
Originality is Best Used in Moderation
There are moments of inspiration that bring a great idea, and life is better for the innovation. But in the day to day living of life, originality is best used in moderation. When the routine of work, school, groups, clubs, and appointments have you stretched to your limits; there is no good reason to not… Continue reading Originality is Best Used in Moderation
No: Use Liberally To Reduce Stress
As the rain came I wondered where we might hear a land slide had happened or a tree fell over. It is not uncommon for large, strong trees to become stressed by too much water, and just let go at the roots. Involvement is fun and important for growth. But we have to be careful… Continue reading No: Use Liberally To Reduce Stress
Memories Of Cookies Past
When I was a young wife, far from home, I decided I wanted to make candy kiss cookies like my Grandmother made. I gathered all the ingredients, baked them perfectly, and had a joyous time smooshing the candy into the middle. Then, finally, biting into one. Only to be disappointed by them. They didn’t taste… Continue reading Memories Of Cookies Past